On being real

I’m glad to have discovered Corbett Barr, who writes on Entrepreneurship.  He’s one of those writers that spark ideas, leaving me pondering for hours or days to come. He is hosting a webinar at noon CST today which I hope to fit into my schedule.  Either way, this post is one of those ponderables:

I’ve noticed something about my blogs and business over the past couple of years.

The more I open up and share my real self with the world, the more successful I become.

There’s just something about connecting with people on a genuine and human level that makes everything about business easier.

This might sound simple, but it took me years to figure it out. In the corporate world, I always had a vision of what the ideal “businessperson” was, and tried to emulate that. By doing that, I ended up living someone else’s dream instead of listening to what I really wanted to do (and probably came off a little stiff or calculating).

Keep reading… Getting Paid to Be “You” from Corbett Barr

On having an open heart

Yesterday I was in the Big Lots store looking for some good deals.  My 19 month old son Micah was on the look out for anything with Elmo on it.  We visit the store there around once a week or so.  Kara was at the check-out lane as usual and Micah looked up and gave her a big grin.  She smiled and waved saying, “that’s what I love about this job, getting to see the kids grow.”

It really doesn’t matter where you work, giving to others with an open heart can make a world of difference for you and for those around you.

I was reminded of a story I read recently from elementary teacher Hugh Atkinson.  He relates working with a challenging child and how their lives changed over the course of the school year.  The lesson he learned from this experience was the value, and yes danger, of having an open heart.

This boy who took every ounce of my strength and patience was chipping away at my heart.  I learned that you can’t fight anger with kindness and acceptance without opening up your heart.  When your heart is open – I mean wide open – you don’t get to choose the people you’re going to let in.  If the door is open, all kinds of people – good and bad alike – come shuffling in.

Read the full story at The High Calling: The Faith of a Teacher

Nonprofit Storytelling Presentation Part 2 – Check out these Resources

Yesterday I shared my presentation slides from the talk that I gave at LLYC, a summer Christian camp in Texas.

Here are articles that I used as I prepared for this talk….

JD Lasica provides 8 great examples of nonprofit storytelling over at Socialbrite. This quote from his article says it well…

Remember, it’s not about the tools or the technology. It’s about finding people who encapsulate what your core objective is all about — and conveying their stories with power, genuineness, passion and humility.

As I worked on the powerpoint I found this advice quite valuable…

Shonali Burke shares 7 tips to set your live presentations on fire.

Laura J. Boggess draws lessons for creating an enchanting presentation from Guy Kawasaki.

Storytelling Presentation

Last week I did a presentation for the camp directors and counselors at Laity Lodge Youth Camp about the power of storytelling. I have been serving as the website content editor for the camp since February. One of the strategic initiatives that we’ve been working on is turning the blog and Facebook page into venues for authentic storytelling. To get that authenticity requires people from the front lines to provide insights, in this case the counselors and staff themselves. So along with my husband Troy and son Micah, I went to camp for a few days.

They already do an amazing amount of high quality photography and video during camp. Now it’s just a matter of getting the “why” behind the images and translating these stories for an audience outside of camp. The first session started on Sunday. I’m looking forward to what the summer holds.

Success Requires Practice, Practice, Practice

I recently listened to an interview with Jeff Barson, a successful artist who later became an even more successful entrepreneur.  One of his key insights is his take on the persistence required to be successful.  He says everyone has grand ideas about what it’s like to be an artist.  They dream of going to gallery openings, wearing a beret and being famous. But few people want to actually do the art, to sit in a room alone at midnight painting.

This brings to mind my college days.  I was a fair artist at pencil drawing and charcoal.  I loved my drawing classes and actually enjoyed the practice work and assignments.  But when I got into new territory – watercolor, 3D design, ceramics – it was not so much fun anymore.  I had to force myself to do the work.  Words became easier to manipulate than clay.   As an art history major I discovered the joy of staring at art and writing about it instead.

I think the blood sweat and tears required of great art is even more apparent for musicians.  While we clap and marvel at the talent of the concert pianist, we never think of the hundreds of hours spent alone in a practice room.

Ethan Rouse, who Troy and I have known since he was a sixth grader going through confirmation at our church, is an amazing musician. He’s had full scholarship offers from several universities.  While his primary instrument is viola he can play just about anything.  At the recent downtown culture crawl, he played percussion with Troy’s band.  At one point he was tapping out the beat on a cardboard box. I jokingly said to his mom that they didn’t need to buy him a viola, just give him a box.  Her reply, “but a box wouldn’t get him to college.”